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Sharenting Dangers with Sarah Adams of Mom Uncharted

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Sharenting Dangers with Sarah Adams of Mom Uncharted

The Rising Concerns of Sharenting and Child Exploitation in the Digital Age



In today's digital world, social media has become an integral part of our lives, allowing us to share experiences, connect with friends and family, and engage with a global audience. However, this unprecedented access also comes with significant responsibilities—especially when it involves our children. In a recent discussion between Andy and Sarah Adams, known on social media as Mom Uncharted, we delved into the crucial topic of sharenting and child exploitation.


Understanding Sharenting


The term "sharenting" is a blend of "sharing" and "parenting," reflecting the practice of parents sharing information about their children on social media platforms. Sarah Adams, an advocate for children’s rights and privacy, points out that this behavior includes everything from posting photos to sharing personal stories about a child's life. Alarmingly, it can sometimes cross the line into child exploitation, particularly when children become content for monetization.


The Dangers of a Digital Footprint


Sarah voiced her discomfort with how widespread and normalized sharing children’s lives online has become, especially without their informed consent. The digital footprint created by parents can have lasting impacts on a child's privacy and autonomy. She emphasized that what parents post today can affect their children’s futures long before they are old enough to decide for themselves what parts of their lives should be public.


Listen to the Interview with Sarah Adams of Mom Uncharted



Crossing the Line: When Sharing Becomes Exploitation


A key concern highlighted during the conversation is the blurred line between innocent sharing and exploitation. According to Sarah, this line is crossed when children become the primary content of a parent's social media account, especially when this content is monetized. The focus should always be on protecting children's rights to privacy and not turning their lives into commercial ventures or entertainment for a public audience.


The Impact on Children and Society


The influence of 'kidfluencers' and family vloggers who share every detail of their life is profound. Watching these lives unfold on screen has altered expectations for many young viewers, who may come to see these staged portrayals as a standard or ideal. The psychological impact on children involved in such productions is another critical issue, as their understanding of self and relationship dynamics may become skewed by living life constantly in front of a camera.


Establishing Healthy Boundaries


So what can parents do to protect their children's privacy while still maintaining a social media presence?


Sarah offers several practical tips:


  • Privatize Social Accounts: Keep accounts private and regularly evaluate who follows you.

  • Mindful Sharing: Be selective about what you share. Avoid posting anything that your child might find embarrassing in the future.

  • Focus on Moments: Share fewer, more meaningful moments instead of daily updates that could infringe on a child’s privacy.


The Role of Legislation and Society


The conversation also touched on the evolving legal landscape concerning child influencers. While recent laws like those enacted in Illinois and California are steps in the right direction, Sarah argues that there is more to be done, particularly regarding the right to privacy and the digital footprint children are forced to inherit.


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A Hopeful Future


Despite the daunting challenges, Sarah remains optimistic about the future. With increasing awareness and legislation, she believes society is slowly shifting towards prioritizing children's rights to privacy and informed consent. The closure of platforms like TikTok in some areas could significantly impact those exploiting children for content, suggesting that real change is possible.


Conclusion: Sharenting Dangers


As we move further into the digital age, it's imperative that conversations like these continue to happen. By understanding the current landscape, setting healthy boundaries, and advocating for stronger privacy protections, we can create a safer online environment for our children. Parents and influencers alike must recognize the weight of their digital choices and strive to respect the agency and privacy of the young lives they hold dear. For more information on how to keep children safe online and learn about legal protections, visit Sarah Adams’ website at KidsAreNotContent.com.



Andy Murphy

Andy Murphy founded The Secure Dad in 2016 with the aspiration to help families live safer, happier lives. What started as a personal blog about family safety has turned into an award-winning podcast, an Amazon best-selling book, and online courses. He focuses his efforts in the areas of home security, situational awareness, and online safety.

 

Andy is a husband and father. His interests include coaching youth basketball, hiking, and trying to figure out his 3D printer.

 

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